Top 10 Tips for Sensational Sex

Enjoy my top 10 tips for sensational sex:

1.  Flirt

Start flirting early with sexy text messages and glances to let your partner know you desire them.  Put on something sexy to capture their imagination.  This gets the juices flowing long before you get to the bedroom.

2.  Set the scene

Dim the lights, light the candles, put on sensual music and sprinkle some rose petals.  Even if you're having sexy time in your usual places, changing the atmosphere by setting the scene uplifts the atmosphere and sets the mood.

3.  Leave the lights on

Did you know men are turned on by sight? Leaving the lights on allows you to savor the beauty of your partner's body and connect more deeply.  Try it!

4.  Eye gaze

The eyes are the gateway to your soul. Eye gazing increases trust and builds intimacy while deepening your bond even if you're lifetime lovers.

5. Slow down!

If this is the only tip you follow, do it and revolutionize your sex life.  The number one thing women want is for you to slow down and savor them.

6. Tune into the sensation in your hand

This helps you to slow down.  As you touch your partner, tune into the pleasure on your own skin as you touch them.  The more you tap into how good it feels for you, the more pleasure there is for your partner.

7. Ask for what you want

It can be really edgy asking for what you want, but if you don't tell your partner, how are they supposed to know?  Share what pleasures you and how you like to be touched.  Stop playing the guessing game and guide your partner to what you like and dislike so they can give you what you want - a recipe for success all around!

8. Inspire the neighbors

Make some noise with the symphony of your love play.  Oohs, aaaahs, moans, groans and yums help to encourage your partner.  It lets them know you're having a good time and creates a feedback loop that keeps turning them on too.

9. Bask in the afterglow

Don't forget to bask in the afterglow with yourself and your lover.  Lay around cuddling together for at least a few minutes to soak up all the magic you created together.

10. Revisit your highlight reel

Take time over the next few days (or even weeks) to revisit the magical moments you shared.  You can do this with your partner or on your own.  It may even inspire you to co-create some more exquisite time together.